“True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights….”
I wish my friends would re-evaluate their views on love and decide what is love and what is lust. I get frustrated when they let boys/”men” walk all over them, but they think it is okay because “They’re the one”. That is really what you want? That is someone that you may someday have watching after your own children? You want your friends, and possibly your someday children to see how that man treats you and to think that thats okay? I know I’m not living in a fantasy land in thinking that men do exist that do not act like this, but I think my friends just want something NOW, and are failing to see that patience is virtuous. Don’t just settle for what is presented to you, because that is lust. Why wait for something that annoys and agitates you? Why wait for someone that can’t make up their mind about you, and has to “experiment” before he made his decision on someone who has devoted their heart already? I know I’m not the BEST person at this, but still. Lets have a little respect for ourselves ladies! Life is too short to be thrown around like this….
